Are you still concerned with (1) using 4 inch D2729 or SDR35 pipe has a too-small ID? If so, let's address that one more intensely. Do you understand the "annular space" area vs the area of the drop pipe? It sounds like you don't buy into that. That one is fundamental before addressing the other two items in your list.
Those other two can be addressed then.
There is an actual concern: can the flow inducer fit past the pitless adapter slide shoe? Not with the
2-inch pitless described here:
Let’s start by addressing the 6” well casing first. Yes, both the Boshart PA-200NL (2” NL Bronze) and the P-200-SS (2” 304 Stainless Steel) Pitless Adapters leave clearance of 4.5” in diameter as show
support.boshart.com
I have not yet found a similar page for a common 1 inch pitless adapter.
If I ever have to get my pump replaced in my 4 inch steel casing well, I intend to use a 3-inch SQ pump in a flow inducer. However my pitless adapter is a thru-way / clearway pitless, so it should fit fine.