I have to agree that something is 'up', replacing the pump the first time was fair enough, in all honesty at the time I had no idea how long the original had been there (I only found out recently it had only been there 2-3 years to begin with) and now replacing the pump AGAIN after just another 2 years means to me something is not right, although it could just be the quality of the pumps which is why they are failing as noted above.
However, considering this failed over Christmas, AFTER we had already spent out for the merry holiday season, and considering trying to get anyone to look at the well pump in my area right after Christmas, for a reasonable price, was nigh on impossible, I 'settled' for buying another 'cheap' alternative to enable us to have water.
Am I happy? Nope, as I now fully expect to have to replace the pump AGAIN in perhaps 2-3 years. Which is why I am considering starting to put money aside, bit by bit, to enable me in 6 months or so to have someone professional in to look at the system and replace the pump with a decent model, and tweak the system where necessary. If this, in fact, recommended.
Do I understand well systems? Nope, I'm a programmer by trade and a home owner who doesn't have a lot of spare cash and who has had to learn various maintenance tasks on the fly to keep things running, welcome to life.
With that said, it does make sense somewhat that the pumps are 'short-cycling themselves to death', the pressure tank is old, and relatively small (at least to my mind), so perhaps I should be looking at replacing that within the next 6 months first to see if this helps? And with this thought in mind I'm open to whatever tidbits of information you guys are willing to give. It's greatly appreciated that you would take the time to try and assist someone like me who's out of his depth, as I would very much like to be able to fit a pump / have a pump fitted, that I merely have to provide routine maintenance for to last the next 5-10 years, as opposed to having to look forward to no water AGAIN within the next 2 years...