I apologize for being thick-headed. I appreciate all your feedback but I am still only being shown alternates without being told what is wrong with my layout, i.e "You're plan doesn't work because..."
As I understand it, the idea of a wet vent is that the horizontal entry of the p-trap arms along the wet vent allows for air for all the fixtures entering the wet-vent section. In my layout, the 2" dry vent below the WC at the top of the line should, according to code as I understand it, provide air to the wet vent which serves the other fixtures above the vertical drop in my horizontal drain. The upper shower, being within 5' and entering the horizontal wet vent horizontally, should, according to code, receive enough air. Why do you all think that it won't?
Under "Wet Venting," the IRC says "The wet vent shall be considered to be the vent for the fixtures and shall extend from the connection of the dry vent along the direction of the flow in the drain pipe to the most downstream fixture drain connection. Each fixture drain shall connect horizontally to the horizontal branch being wet vented or shall have a dry vent. Each wet-vented fixture drain shall connect independently to the horizontal wet vent."..."Not more than one wet-vented fixture drain shall discharge upstream of the dry-vented fixture drain connection."
James Henry, I don't understand how my plan is a circuit vent since I have vertical/wet vents on the line which are not allowed on a circuit vent. I can also find no code reference or AAV mfg installation requirement that the lav has to be the closest fixture to the stack. (And which stack are you referring to?)
If I do what is being asked of me, i.e. vertically wet-vent the upper shower with the upper lav, then I am no longer connecting each fixture drain independently to (what I believe to be) the horizontal wet vent. Instead, I'm creating side branches that are vented independently of (what I believe to be) the horizontal wet vent.
Actually, if the shower is not getting enough air, given my layout, it will be easier to dry vent the shower rather than wet vent it with the lav.
As the link Reach4 provided says, there are many entrenched ideas that provide for much more venting than has been shown to be required. I assume the 2018 code is based on the latest science so if it allows for a more efficient layout, that's my preference. However, I came to this forum because I do respect your experience. You've all seen the problems caused by bad installs. I don't want mine to be one of them. I will for sure up the vents to 2". That's easy enough to do. But I do want to understand where my plan is wrong because the other layouts will be harder to plumb.
Thank you again.