The usual recommendation to achieve the best balance of salt efficiency, soft water quality (low hardness leakage) and useable Capacity each cycle, for a softener containing 1.5 ft3 resin (48,000 grains total hardness removal capacity), will be to program the Capacity setting to 36, which will cause the unit to regenerate when 36,000 grains capacity has been consumed. To regenerate 36K Capacity will then require only 12 lbs salt, to achieve a maximum hardness reduction efficiency equaling 3,000 gr/lb (36,000 gr / 12 lbs).
Assuming each person will consume 60 gallons soft water per day, that will be 180 gallons/day X 25 gpg = 4,500 gr/day estimated softening load.
36,000 gr Capacity / 4,500 gr/day = 8 days - 1 day Reserve gallons = an estimated regeneration frequency of 7-8 days. This size softener will then be the minimum size recommended for 3 persons with 25 gpg hardness.
If there are only 2 persons present, then the estimated regeneration frequency will be 11-12 days, which is ideal.
Because municipal supplied water is chlorinated, it will therefore contain 0 ferrous iron that will be removed by the softener.
How was the 25 gpg hardness determined? If the hardness amount was stated by the water supplier, they will typically state the average hardness from all water sources. As the hardness of the water usually arriving at your location maybe higher or lower than average, recommend testing at your location utilizing a Hach 5B Total Hardness test kit, which will also permit a periodic comparison of both the incoming raw water hardness and the soft water hardness to verify the softener is operating optimally.
Because municipal supplies are often obtained from multiple sources, with each source potentially contributing a different amount of hardness, recommend programming the softener's hardness setting 2-3 gpg higher than the onsite test result, to anticipate occasions throughout the day/week when hardness maybe greater than average.
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Why? Does your municipal water contain visible sediment/debris? If not, not necessary nor recommended to install cartridge filters before water treatment equipment. Any small particles that may potentially enter the carbon filter, will become backwashed out to drain during each Backwash cycle.