I completely missed the words "total volume" in BobNH's post. Using the 60 gallon tank, with 18 gallons of draw down as he suggested, could cause a 15 gpm pump to cycle 360 times per day. This is a worst case condition that would only happen if you are using about 8 GPM for 24 hours a day. However, a pump for 2 camps should expect worse case conditions. Using the (2) 80 gallon tanks would be much safer with a system that has variable and unpredictable flow rates such as most camps.
On a system with 2 tanks at different locations, the size of the tanks does not make any difference. Even 2 equally sized tanks can fill at different rates and times as I have explained. Installing to small of a pipe line is also the only reason one camp would see a lower pressure than the other, no matter the size or placement of the tanks.
Using a Cycle Stop Valve will not cause large and rapid pressure swings but, just the opposite. The CSV is a "constant pressure" valve, and will hold a steady pressure regardless of the amount of flow being used. Large and rapid pressure swings would be caused by the old style system that BobNH is recommending, as the pressure will continually rise and fall from 60 to 40, filling and draining the tank, and causing the pump to cycle on and off.
The pump must be sized to supply the peak demands of both camps at the same time. Without a large enough pump, the 18 gallons stored in the 60 gallon tank, or even the 50 gallons stored in two of the 80 gallon tanks, will not be enough extra when there is a peak demand. With the pressure tank only system, you also have no guarantee of how much water is in the tanks before a peak demand calls for water. It is more likely that the system will be at 41 PSI with a 40/60 pressure switch, when there is a peak demand. That means that there is no stored water available in the tank or tanks, and if your pump cannot handle the demand on it's own, you are out of water at both camps.
The CSV resulting in greater power consumption is also a false statement. Eliminating the rapid cycling that can happen with the old pressure tank only systems, the CSV can actually reduce energy consumption. The CSV can also double or triple the life of your pump system while using a much smaller and less expensive pressure tank. Most importantly, the CSV will deliver constant "city like" pressure, compared to the pressure constantly fluctuating from low to high like an old farm house, as pressure tank only systems will do.