Follow-up question: If a valve stem or seat was not sealed properly and thus leaks at the threads, would it show up as a leak in the shower or behind the shower?
I'm guessing the valve stem would leak inside the tub in the same way a stem with a loose packing nut would leak. And a seat that is not sealed properly would leak behind the shower (and might do some serious damage). Is this about right?
A thin wind of thin tape under the seats' shoulder will insure no leak from the back side of the seat and won't interfere with anything. I look at as a gasket.
Same with supplementing the seal where the steam it threaded into the valve body.