OK, called in the professionals, the guy who installed everything several years ago used 15 to 20 feet pieces of pipe and then connected them together for over 110 feet instead of one large roll of pipe. These fittings were starting to rust thus causing leaks in between, causing backflow and not allowing enough pressure to make the points close. They replaced all piping and installed a new check valve , old check valve was built inside the pump, said they had never seen this. Check valve was not bad but with it built in pump they thought it best to install one above pump just in case it would ever go bad. Good news is I did not have to go outside at 5:00 am to turn water on in 12 degree weather, Yah!