Well we have had ours in place for 6+ weeks and I have yet to pick up a plunger! AWESOME. This in a house of 5, where someone would clog the toilet at least once a day, no exaggeration.
Almost all issues (#1 & #2) are taken care of with the "small" flush. Yes there is the occasional streak, but I would say less than with our old toilet. Most of which gets taken care of when the toilet gets flushed and the bowl fills substantially with a forceful torrent of water. The water spot is perfectly placed to catch most of what goes in. A "normal" toilet looks ridiculously wasteful and/or clogged when you get used to looking at such a tiny water spot as in this toilet.
The install is a little more involved than a regular toilet, especially if you have tile floors, but nothing a half competent DIY'er can't handle.
There is a slight whoosh/thump on flush but minor when the lid of the tank is on etc. I certainly isn't waking the whole house up if you flush at 2:00 a.m.
First thing we noticed after this toilet was in is the lack of "outhouse" smell in the bathroom. Three boys in this house and it seems when they miss it would drip down through the bolt holes for the toilet seat and then onto the ceramic surrounding the flange. It would always smell no matter how often this got wiped up. This has been totally eliminated with this toilet. I presume because of the excellent rubber seal between the seat and bowl.
Looks fantastic, easy to clean, inside and out, saves huge amounts of water, overall a 10 out of 10. We ordered a second one for our basement bathroom two days after we put this one in. We will also be using one in a third floor masterbath once the addition gets built.