Well thanks for all your Help.. I really mean that you guys have been so helpful. I got all the way to getting the bolts off and the water connection off and I chickened out and I called my plumber friend.
He lifted up the toliet and use needle nose plyer and a flashlight and there it was , the wooden roller, and it was swollen form absorbing all the water for 7 weeks... Thansk to him he put every thign back togther for me.
we now have a working toilet. Thank god we had 2 bathrooms..
I will be sending my friend a nice thank you card with a gift card inside.
thanks for all your support.