LOL! very good cookie.Yep, Daddy Dearest.
Nah, a well-controlled corrective or remindful spanking is not an assault. My mother spanked me many times while teaching me to obey, and today I would thank her for that if she were still alive. Like someone has mentioned, mere "time outs" are useless unless a child is truly going to ponder and alter his or her wrong behaviour, and few human beings ever do that without some kind of pain having first been a motivator.This country needs to enact a law making it unlawful to assault/spank a child, it is one of the same.
My father used to say precisely this: "If you do not respect me, I will beat you until you do."He said on the tape, " I will beat you into submission."
Not true. Some parents understand they just need to be sure they have a child's attention.Any parent who hits their kid that is exactly, their objective, whether, they realize it or not.
Sure, but then so can some appropriate spanking be passed along.... getting what you want from others [by] hitting, assaulting physically or verbally is passed from one generation to another.
That is not always why people do that. Many have just never been shown any other way.Their are some people who ... acquired the learned trait that a rap in the mouth, a crack across a backside, a punch is the way to handle someone, anyone, a wife, their kid, who has the nerve to disagree with them ...
How easy to strike out and hit, they see it as a cure, as a they will know I mean business. What they fail to understand, is the child in them, is doing the hitting, usually, hitting back from their own childhood.
If even the first whack had been done in anger, then it would have been just as wrong as the "just one more" last.Ask yourself this, for anyone who sees, spanking, as an innocent thing, as something you are able to dispense out fairly and rationing; do, you stop, when the child says to? or starts to cry out? Or... is it, just one more, so he/she gets the point>>>
Then why bother with a simple law against spanking? After all, that law would then just have to be enforced at the point of a gun ...There is no easy, quick fix for being a good parent ...
What is different about that and spanking? Why not just give parents an occasional "time out" while having a bit of conversational exchange?I would like to see a law passed making, "spanking" unlawful, with jail time, and huge restitution having to be made.
So then, why do you insist it is always wrong to do the same with a child?Would you give an adult male a "time out" for conversation if he assaulted another "adult male" in the streets?
No. You would punish him for his crime.
This is awkward, but...
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