So many questions . . .
I used 50-50 lead-bearing solder for many years. it was far easier to work with than the newer lead-free solder. It had a larger "window" that allowed you to wipe the joint with gloves or rag and make it look neat. The lead-free solder is either very liquid or very solid.
Similarly, wiping a lead joint requires wiping solder, and it has a longer window. The technique involves pouring the molten solder over the joint (after preparation) until it warms the lead enough for the solder to meld with the lead, but not so warm that the lead melts - a real possibility. It took a goodly amount of coordination and skill, and the old masters of the art could wipe some complex and difficult joints.
I know little about lead for water pipes since I've never actually seen it done where I worked, so I do not know the method of joining them. The lead wiping is for drainage lines.
One of the questions on one of my state plumbing tests was: "How do you support lead pipes?" And the correct answer is, "continuously, with wood strips." However, none of the lead pipes I've ever seen were supported that way, or at all, except by their connections or the floor joists they were hung on. That may be because at the time the joints were being made, there were no codes nor inspections in this state.