Had the day off today so I played with this some more.
I tested my old submersible Goulds deep well pump in a bucket and it seemed to work fine, I set it up with PVC zip tied to the bottom and an elbow at the outlet as I saw in an old post on this forum and lowered it to the bottom of the well setup horizontally.
It seems to work fine for the first 10 to 15 gallons or so run out of hose and then starts to slow down and eventually trickles to nothing. What is it odd is when I check the tank pressure gauge it was still reading at 45 and not dropping at all to cut the pump on again(I had the switch cover off and could see the contacts were not engaged so pump was not on).
I hooked up to the hose valve I had right after the pressure tank manifold and watched the contacts while filling two 5 gallon buckets and it seems to be working properly the first few cycles, only odd thing is pressure gauge cuts the pump back on at just under 40 psi and off at 50psi.
My tank is only 2 years old but it seems my problems may be tank related now, the pressure switch seems to work fine as far as cutting in and out and I checked all the contacts and power feed in and out are working properly. It seems as though the tank isn't dropping in pressure quickly enough for some reason.
When the outdoor hose was out of water but tank was still reading 45 or I turned off hose and turned off pump breaker, pressure on gauge was holding at 45. I opened hose valve below the pressure tank right after the manifold and got only about 3/4 of a gallon of water out as pressure then dropped to 0. Closed valve, turned pump breaker back on , pressure switch worked as it as supposed to and pressure went back to 50, I was able to fill two buckets of water then with normal pressure(didn't have more buckets handy otherwise would have kept going.
I removed pressure switch at one point and checked nipple and it was clear, it seems to operate as it should.
My tank was preset at 38 and I just noticed the sticker is still on valve so it has never been changed, definitely checking that first thing in the morning. Looks like I also need to change my cut off pressure from 50 to 60. No idea why it seems to get stuck at 45 though and not drop pressure to call the pump back on, I can visually see the pressure switch contact not engaging and checked the contacts with a multimeter so I know the pump was not getting power when the water was at a trickle. Tank felt empty when I drained it so I don't think it is waterlogged.