Okay, not acceptable by new standards. But unacceptable for the guys finances, so let me offer my situation - very similiar.
For me, an added bath would have meant 5 grand for the septic and 3000$ in school fees. So I later added a toilet into the 3" vent for the first floor toilet. the top toilet is about 13' above the lower one, and the turds get a very good drop going.
After 15 years, the lower toilet has never seen any suction in the bowl or trap, so illegal and wrong, its my 8,000$ risk that worked. Use the lowest flow unit you can find to reduce the issues. For the poster, if he doubts me and the vagaries of his piping, take a 5 gallon bucket on the roof and pour it in at a toilet like rate, station an observer at your suspect fixtures and see if anything goes wrong. then put the garden hose in the vent and let ir run for 1/2 an hour at half blast. Use the other fixtures and evaluate the performance. "not acceptable" doesnt mean not possible.
To "fill" a 3" pipe and guarantee a clean sweep of the traps would likely require a 50 gallon tank and a fast opening 3" valve. that is NOT a toilet. Besides, probably all the older homes had wet vents if any at all. I dont advocate NO vents.
But I get sick when I see these new homes peppered with 6 or 8+ vents all over the roof helter skelter, just waiting to leak. My homes get one or 2] 3" vents out a sidewall or hidden portion of roof. The roofers LOVE me.