Oh, Lucille in one of my former lives I was a bouncer. I already had a contractor try to take advantage of me. But, he underestimated what I learned from my husband. He came in and was checking the floor out, gave me an estimate and as fate would have had it, my younger son comes in and joins us. He starts to tell this man that his dad did this kind of work on our other house years ago. Well, this contractor asked, " where is your dad now?" He sadly told him that he had passed away. I looked at my younger son like, OHHHH, you should not had said that son. I was right. Not more than 5 minutes later he informed me that the estimate was 3 times higher! He claimed he underestimated it. I informed him, he had underestimated me; telling him to leave because I knew what he had just done. I saw the look on this man's face when he learned my husband was gone. I knew I was right. So, he left with a smirk on his face, but with no money in his pocket and no job to be done.
I told my son I may look stupid,
and I never will claim to be the brightest light bulb in the box, but my intelligence is comparable to the general population. My younger son could not believe people would do that, we had a heart to heart conversation explaining to him that not only people will do that, but there are those who thrive on it. I felt badly taking such a nice kid and teaching him about such people, but if something happens to me, he has to take care of himself.
I really feel for you with that problem in the bath. It drives me crazy. I got the toilet back in, it seems to work great. The sink is next now, the light, the cove & the what-have-you.
Murphy's Law. I did a column once on it. My middle name is Murph. Yes, yes Lucille, everything since my husbands death is breaking, going wrong. Not only the furnace, the roof, the bath erupted, but, also family ties are breaking. Yet, I believe in time that things will go right. The house will be great, better than ever; and the family ties will be stronger since we aired our differences. I just had to take a leave of absence from work to regroup.
In the time off, I got a new furnace put in, which I knew less of than toilets! I bought a jeep replacing another car whose warranty ran out thinking this was smart. Which I think it was, considering the jeep is also great in snow and the other one was not much better than a car on a sled.
I finished, and I mean I finished black-topping the driveway. This is not a small driveway, it is circular and long. I cut down a tree, a butternut, whose nuts kept falling in the driveway I just finished. It might had helped if it wasn't my neighbors tree, lol. Oh, well...he got over it. I gave him the old Craftsmen lawn mower we had, when he started speaking to me again,
This is why my kids say, " what did you do!" with the closet ceiling.
My younger son asked right away, " did you check with Harry mom, before you cut that tree?" Ooops, did not know it was his, went out checked where the stump was and sure enough, it was not mine to cut.
Keep us informed over your bath.
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