Cookie,
Apologize if I offended. After decades of being abused by selfish , arrogant ,cheap people I guess I've forgotten how many good, honest people there really are . I was wrong,,,,sorry.
Ah ,,,look,,,,,go for it with the Plumber . Might be too soon yet ask yourself would your husband REALLY want you to pass up this chance ? There is NO such thing as coinsidence ,,,,,,,,,,,, Is'nt it possable that your husband sent this man to you ??
Best of luck . Cal