Problem Resolved!
Just wanted to let everyone know that I did get the bolts off, even without throwing the toilet out the window. I used 2 sets of vice grips and a lot of WD 40. I got the wing nut off, but didn't realize for a bit that there was another nut between the tank and the seat. I ended up disconnecting the water source (yes it was turned off this whole time) and removing the tank completely so I could get to the nut on the bottom of the tank! Everything is reassembled and working (no leaks so far)! I appreciate all the help.